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1 iyilik isteniyorsa 1 iyilik yap, rahatlıkla yapabilecek durumda da olsan 2,3,4,5.i iyiliği yapma
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 Her zaman kendi isteklerini çevrenin isteklerinden daha fazla önemse (Şafak et yemek istiyor, ben pasta..)

İsteklerinde ısrar etmeyi bil.

To simplify: Don't embrace every aspect of reality, but only include those aspects that seem relevant.

They are pragmatic: they focus on what is useful

They organize: they provide structure and create a filing system

Ayrıca ve neden bu kadar ulaşılır olasın ki? Bu kadar kıymetsiz misin?

Don't finish people's sentences for them.
Don't interrupt before a message has been fully stated.

Just a little goes a long way.

I have to be flexible, because I don't have total control on it Bhima. (Şafak'ın sigarası, sessizliği)
Booko ara: gezi kitapları
 Minimalizmin bir başka yolu: 10 dk.lık pauselar, hiçbirşey yapmadığın ya da istediğini yaptığın

Tüm dengeleri birarada sağlamaya çalışırsan ya hiçbirşey yapamazsın ya da istemediğin şeyleri yaparsın.

Minimalizmin başka bir yolu:
Mecburiyetlerini kıstla
Gerçekten buna mecbur muyum?
Gerçekten bu şart mı?
Ve günde bir proje bitir, proje bazlı hayat, savrulmadan

Ve bu yıl üzülmediğin, korkmadığın, hesap yapmadığın bir yıl olsun.

Ve hep daha basit nasıl yapabilirim diye sorgulamak, şart mı? demek.
 Hayat bağlanmalardan ibarettir Adem Güneş
Karşılaştığımız herkes, biz beğenelim beğenmeyelim bizi icad eder. Murat Menteş (Dublörün dilemnası)
Bir çocuk sütle ve övgüyle beslenir.
Geçmiş ve gelecekle uğraşırken şimdiyi kaybettik
Akıllı kişi farklı şeyler arasındaki benzerlikleri, benzer şeyler arasındaki farklılıkları görür Murat Menteş - İmam Gazali
Ceylanın pınara inişi misin sen?
İsteklerini direkt belirt, ricacı olma
Say no without excuses
İsteklerini excuse sunmadan belirt
 G.Sreenivasa Rao
Good question. As usual, great answers from community. I have not read all. Here are my reflections, in no particular order of importance

Create memories. Memories are created when you do what you fear, not confident, hesistate, reluctant, doubtful, unsure etc. Do every experiment except drugs, alchol and cigarettes and few more things that are not healthy. Experiments need not be physical, or financial. They can be intellectual, emotional, etc as well. In the end, memories remain.

 Aim for financial independence. I cannot stress it enough. There is no real independence if you have don't have health, and financial independence. Protect and nurture what you have and keep improving on.

Learn from your parents. They have their own regrets, lessons, failures and success. Know them. Your parents could provide an alternative narrative to your life. So, learn about their life, thier contexts, and about themselves. The same with your grandparents from both sides. They provide something- thier life experiences.
Create future references. All my not so successful to total failures added value to my personality for myself. Treat everthing as experiment. Be curious. Be open. It is perfectly fine to attempt, fail, and then attempt and then fail, then move on. If you have more references, you can cope, enjoy, and succeed better.

Don't yield to societal pressure which you know you can regret later.  Accept you are unique in many ways. And love it, flaunt your uniqueness.
Never ever compare yourself with anyone ever. That is useless.

 If you can help any one,  in anyway you can, help in the way they want, with their permission and participation.

Life is depressing, frustrating, challenging etc most of the time, which makes life's tapestry beautiful. Single colour won't make a great art.

Learn to enjoy life, and all its manifestations deeply. This is the most important skill. You have to enjoy, as many things are temporary. Problems are not permanent. So are opportunities. So is life. So are you and So I.

One of my professor's told me- life as we grow becomes complex, and it is our duty to make it simple. Life, fundamentally, is simple, and we complexify it so often by being not authentic, bold, creative and expressive.

Choose the work you really care, enjoy and supports you. Remember, some kinds of money is too expensive.

 Invest in yourself. Learn more and more about yourself. The clearer you are, the clearer you can be. Dedicate time for yourself. Know yourself. The more you know, and the more certain you know about yourself, the better you can do with your life, its opportunities.

Finally, learn to integrate and internalise and see that your behaviour reflects consistently what you have learnt and chosen to implement.